Homeschooling—Don’t go it alone

homeschoolingwednesday Homeschooling—Dont go it alone

The decision to homeschool is rarely made lightly. Often a mom will do a lot of research about homeschooling, discuss it at length with her husband, and earnestly pray for guidance before making the final decision to homeschool. But there’s another step that is just as essential to ensuring success (and preventing burnout) in homeschooling — finding support.

Now I’m not talking about support from your husband—that’s basically a no-brainer. What I’m referring to is establishing a personal support network with other homeschoolers, preferably locally. Although homeschooling can be very enjoyable, it can also be extremely challenging, so It’s important to get connected with other homeschooling moms for support, whether this is your first year homeschooling or your tenth.

So how do you find support?

1. Join a homeschooling support group or homeschool co-op in your area. To find a local group you can simply Google “homeschool group” for your area, but the following websites might simplify your search a bit. With the popularity of homeschooling growing every year, it’s likely you can find a group that’s close by.

2. Join a Yahoo!Group dedicated to homeschooling for online support. If you subscribe to a particular method of homeschooling such as Charlotte Mason, Ruth Beechick, Classical Method, or Unschooling, you can even find a group dedicated to issues specifically related to that method. There are even Yahoo!Groups specific to curriculum such as TruthQuest History and Apologia Elementary Science. Members of these Yahoo!Groups post tips, questions, and suggestion related to the theme of the group, then other members respond to the post with their own comments. You are sure to find a wealth of information and support in these groups.

To find a Yahoo!Group about homeschooling or in your particular area of interest, simply visit Yahoo!Group’s home page and enter whatever search term you choose (such as homeschooling, unschooling, Konos, etc.)

3. Start your own local “support” group. Starting your own group doesn’t have to mean incorporating as a nonprofit organization. It simply means finding other homeschoolers in your area and setting up a regular time to get together.

This is something I have done in my own home town. I joined a county-wide homeschooling association, but that group didn’t meet regularly since it was mainly intended for online support. But through that membership I discovered that there were dozens of homeschoolers within a five-mile radius of my house. Using my association’s online forum I was able to spread the word about my desire to start a “social group” close to my home. Numerous families expressed interest, so we started meeting together for an hour and a half once a week at our local library. That was two years ago, and now our group is the official homeschooling outreach for our library; we even have use of the city’s community center for our meetings free of charge. Since the goal of our group is just socialization (for both the kids and the moms), it has taken very little effort to organize. This group has been such a blessing to my family, and it’s where my children and I have made our closest friends.

and finally…

4. Find some quality homeschooling blogs—then read and comment. This is a great way to find support from veteran homeschoolers. Blogging homeschool moms are eager to share their experience with others. I won’t send you directly to any homeschooling blogs since they are so easy to find. Simply Google “homeschooling blogs” and then start clicking!

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AUTHOR | Joy Miller

Joy, one of the original 3 Moms at Happy to be at Home, is the wife of a music minister and spends her days homeschooling her three children (ages 6, 9, and 11), teaching piano lessons from her home, and trying to improve her cooking skills. You can read more about Joy on her personal blog, Five J's.

Posted by Joy Miller on Oct 14th, 2008 | Filed Under Homeschooling
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  1. “Now I’m not talking about support from your husband—that’s basically a no-brainer.”

    Actually, it isn’t. :)

    ADDED BY JOY:

    Shelia, thanks for taking the time to comment. What I meant by support from your husband being a “no-brainer” is that having your husband’s support is obviously a good thing and it’s not often overlooked as something to be desired when starting to homeschool. Setting up a network of support outside the family is what is often overlooked.

    I homeschooled my first year without any outside support, and for the the first half of that year I didn’t even have my husbands support. Thankfully, he “got on board” by the end of the year. But it was still amazing the positive difference having outside support made in our homeschooling endeavor. I can’t imagine doing without the support of my homeschooling friends now. They are a wonderful resource and an essential part of our homeschooling journey now.

  2. I posted just yesterday on my blog that I was meeting with a new friend to start our own co-op! How funny!

    We are currently driving over 30 minutes one way to get to a co-op that my son doesn’t truly enjoy. He has a social/language deficit and the only time the other kids his age actually don’t ignore him altogether is when they are being too rowdy (as an only child whose friends growing up were usually girls - not to mention his inability to understand) he does not like that at all! However God has blessed our church home with many wonderful homeschoolers and the newest family has a son just my son’s age (in addition to 3 others that are not :o) and they get along great! I am encouraged and look forward to this new endeavor…may God bless our efforts because this is truly what we feel we are supposed to do! :o)

    Thanks for the great info on where to start!

  3. Thank you so much for sharing this! Being a new homeschooler, I have a couple of friends from church that homeschool, but we don’t get together too much. There is a coop in town, but unfortunately I didn’t get in - in time for it this year. Ugh!

  4. I totally agree! In addition to this, when things get tough (which they sometimes do), to then GO TO your local support people for encouragement. I made the mistake of taking what the local public school system had to offer “homeschool support” in the form of classes… long story short, my kids are in school and I have a lot of regrets. Please, please, please go to your support people! (If you want to read my story, it’s on my blog.)

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